Tuesday, August 31, 2004

Is it possible?

Is it possible that even if you and a person haven't been a couple or had a relationship/commitment at all, you still feel that she's the love of your life? I think it is..... yupyup.. it is

39 Comments:

Blogger deleteaccount said...

yes, i think it's possible...no one ever said that you can't fall in love with someone that way...

...and no one ever said that the other person has to love you in the same way back for you to fall for that person and for that person to be the love of your life...

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7:14 PM  
Blogger bullish1974 said...

yes.

7:19 PM  
Blogger kei said...

absolutely :)

7:25 PM  
Blogger sweetieclaire said...

hell yes! :D its possible. :D chill aight?

8:10 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Of course that is possible. You know love in itself is a very complicated "thing" to explain..you cant see it but you can certainly feel it.. You know am in that situation and i have no regrets. I'd rather wait for the one that I really love (and i think i've met him already) than settle for less.. he he he.. By the way i dont have a blogspot account so the option that's left for me is to post anonymously but you can call me "ate ems" (that's what most people call me). I hope you can also drop by my site @ http://emiliesaavedra.net (vain, huh? hehe) thanks in advance.

10:04 PM  
Blogger wacky said...

maybe you need to move on, man

11:56 PM  
Blogger peepai said...

well sweetie... here it goes...

sometimes it is just so hard to accept that you can't really have "her". the more you long for her, the more you think you love her. and this is actually intensified by frustration, thus you are in pain.

anyone can love anybody. of course you are capable of loving her even without the serious commitment. but you know sometimes there are things beyond your control although it is sad but it is certainly true. i feel your pain, i have been in a situation like that, now, looking back, puro what if's na lang, i have detached myself from the feeling. i know soon, everything's gonna be ok. so good luck!

5:15 AM  
Blogger mrdl said...

i believe so. the love of my life is someone i never had a commitment to. i had recently just let him go. i mean, i decided to stop holding on when i realized i shouldn't put my life on hold for him. it's hard but we never can make anyone love us the way we want him/her to.
napansin ko, andami nating ganito situation. basta wag lang natin sirain buhay natin for unreturned love, we'll be fine. God is also taking care of us. =)

11:35 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I agree. It is possible.

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11:42 AM  
Blogger im_a_chick said...

uh huh!! why not diba! ;)

4:12 PM  
Blogger bec_succubus said...

yup..it is possible...sigh

5:00 PM  
Blogger - she - said...

yes. i believe it is possible. but then, just because you love someone (and even if he/she loves you back), it does not necessarily mean that you'd end up together or that you were ever meant to be together. i should know.. hay.. but then again, it doesn't mean you'd stop loving that person either. you'll learn to let go and move on, but the love will always be there.

1:14 AM  
Blogger GreenMangoes said...

try to watch.... "My Sassy Girl" a korean film. its one of the most uncompelling love stories ever told..

makak relate ka kasi like others.. (and me too) are born to be unlucky in love!

5:38 AM  
Blogger .hannah. said...

oyyyy weeez!

remember what i told u last night? anyway just hang in there man and chill..

remember: IM HERE AND IM ALL EARS ayt??

you'll be alright man.. i promise.


--hannah

p.s. "maybe the best way to show someone that you love them is by letting them go."

im sure that if you really love her.. you'll accept what makes her happy even if it doesnt involve bein in a relationship.. k? anyway, kaya mo yan luis!! be strong dude :D

2:58 PM  
Blogger red9cracking said...

love of ur life?i dnt think so.."ul nevr knw a person until u lived w/ hm/hr under 1 roof" Love can be really tricky specially wen ur just on the 1st stage of it. Ul never c her lowest low and highest high on an early stage.Ul c dat she's a total nagger and a two timer when u marry her! but hey! :D ur belief cud stil be pocbl if you're lucky w/ love..and i dnt mean ur name..

7:29 PM  
Blogger Mae said...

yup! that's possible. ;)

1:25 PM  
Blogger Mae said...

what you can't have, you can't resist.

1:28 PM  
Blogger .hannah. said...

aba naks! u finally went to the gym! haha! anyway.. read this.. found em.. though it would help:


"You can't say a person is "YOURS" because you can't really own a person. A person should be set free.. but no less, love the person still. You can't immediately change someone, you just have to be patient. You can't demand for something more than a person could give, be content. Don't be insatiable and require so many things that a person is choked, the person you love can't breathe and needs to be set free - it's so cliche but: if he comes back to you, then the love is yours to keep"


"We're young and we're not supposed to be tied down to a person yet. Why? Because we are still emotionally weak. We have so many dreams left to do.. it doesn't mean that we can't fall in love, though. But usually, relationships in our age don't last very long. It's sad, really. Specially if you really loved that person so much, and it won't work out.. but that's not the hardest part, the hardest part is keeping the old friendship or trying to bring it back. No one said it's easy, it'll never be. But sometimes, it all depends on how you take things and understand them."

sorry this is long but hey.. i think that if i were in your situation.. id rather stay friends nalang with her. sometimes.. friendship is SO much more than relationships.. ionno man. but hey.. it your choice. move on and let it go or stay in denial and hang on..

1:51 PM  
Blogger franz said...

she may also be a fling. :)

10:44 AM  
Blogger liz said...

i think it's possible. i mean kismet and serendipity and all that wouldn't exist if that kind of thing isn't at all possible.

2:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

maybe....but they say delusions last longer than a kick-ass reality-based punch in the *****....find love somewhere else...hee heee

5:30 PM  
Blogger Abbie eXcites said...

Yep. REALLY possible. You can even love someone so BAD from a distance...

3:48 PM  
Blogger DYrek said...

hello there... just want to say that your poems are great! hehehehe... mutual admiration society ba ito?

2:39 AM  
Blogger Xtine said...

yup, i think it's possible! been there, done that. :O)

3:34 AM  
Blogger Grace said...

unrequited love is still love after all. however, as much as i want to agree with you, uhhmm.. i don't think it works that way. it could get painfully exhausting in the long run. there's gotta be someone else out there who can love you in the same way that you love her.

12:36 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

yup, its very possible..a friend told me that every guy/girl has one love of his/her life that can never be hers/his.. anyways, i think it is true and reality is that we don't always get what we want...in this matter.the love of our life..that's why we always have two loves of our life (again..according to a friend) one, that we can only love from afar and we ralize we can never get and one who makes love for us a reality...

3:46 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think it's true.

Once you loved someone for real talaga, he or she will forever become a part of you na.

9:32 AM  
Blogger jeana10 said...

i think it is possible.

maybe you do love her but for some reason you can't be with that person... huhuhu that's really sad.

11:07 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Definitely......its a common situation actually! Perfect example is a die-hard fan of a celebrity--like you!! For all you know may isang fan na mahal na mahal ka but just doesn't have a chance to show you for obvious reasons! Think about it.... =) -Angelvodka

8:11 PM  
Blogger Mec said...

i think it's possible

but rather pointless and really sad

pitiful even... to consider someone the love of your life, and have him/her unavailable to live out his/her life in a lifetime of loving/growing and being with you...

11:02 AM  
Blogger russ.™ said...

it is possible, but that's probably one of the saddest things on earth... just bloghopping..

1:32 PM  
Blogger nazer said...

no!

4:05 PM  
Blogger dsm said...

it's sooo hard to hide those sadness and aching heart behind of all those laughs, and energy... it's like you feel you'll gonna explode any minute. blogging is the only one who understands you.(not being aware thousands of people are reading it) but people around you always say they understand you, do this do that. but deep inside. it's hard. they just tell it because they don't know or pretend they know how it feels.the fact is, nobody can help you, but you. they are just there to make you strong.but sometimes, that works. *gg*

12:26 AM  
Blogger fadz said...

Yah, it is really possible..! Just wait for the right time... to come the girl of ur dream's..!!!malay mo ako...jokeeeeeee!!!!

2:11 PM  
Anonymous sheyna said...

yes, you could feel that way. however, you cant really control what the other half is feeling...she could be the girl of your dreams and the love of your life but we can never know if she feels the same...=') only my opinion...

12:38 AM  
Anonymous sweetlips('',) said...

absolutely,sometimes people just know certain things and with these certain things behind them is a flow of emotions.people dont need relationships and commitment to know they love each other.thats for something else.but to love each other, real love...there is no rules or restraints,only the heart has unspoken rules that we will unconsciously follow and we wont even know we did.u know?and that love always finds its own way to renew it self always.never goes stale,and dry.always like a new day it will also take control of not just the heart but the mind and body also entire days spent thinking of that person, and thats when u know thats the person you wish and long to be for....

7:03 PM  
Anonymous still_not_talking@yahoo.com said...

Yes, it is, sad but true, yes it is..I've been inlove for him for almost 5 years and he had no idea of what I really feel for him. Walng communication ni Hi -hello and watsoever and then feb 2006 after 5 years nagkita kami ulit.. everything turned out fine until.. I've said those stupid words.. Im depressed and nobody knows but me =(

12:37 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yes, it is possible. I'm in love or have been in love with someone who I know can never be mine as in can never reciprocate those same feelings if not more. He's the only man that made me feel that despite my flaws, I am complete. Everything I want, need and dream of it's there with him. Fortunate the women he is in love with b/c she has been blessed with such a gift, the absolute package. See, I never fought for him and so now I have no other choice but to appreciate him from a far. Mahirap kc, kasal na sila. =( I know, even worst, loving a married man. I'd like to think of it in better terms. Before they were married, yes, I was in love. Now, it is different and those feelings can no longer linger or be expressed so rather I say I appreciate him. Besides, he married a wonderful woman, someone to def be proud of and I wouldn't want anything but the best for them. Kahit ganoon ang situation, I can't help but compare every other man in my life with him. That's the problem when you find perfection, hard to top. In this world, out of a billion inhabitants there will always be that one, slightly more special, an artist's prize that can only be admired from a distance but never consumed. The funny thing is, out of that billion somewhere out there-there is a person who thinks just that of you/me. So what now? I keep myself preoccupied like every other busy bee, keep my spirit high, my heart, my mind resilient and pray my neo and I can finally get it together and find each other. The drawback about keeping busy, forgetting to take a break to appreciate the finer things, the bigger picture. Anyhow, thank you for letting me share this long a%$ message. Just want to let you know that it's okay to appreciate someone, who knows as long as she is not yet married or committed, there could still be a chance, it's yours in the waiting. Just remember, if you focus your attn to just one thing for too long, you get crossed eyed. Take the blinders off once in a while, you might find what you are looking for. In my case, my best luck in finding him is if we rear end each other. =D <--- accident prone kc. Take care Mr. Manzano and to the posters alike 0=D

6:48 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i just read this. sorry kung ngayon lang ako comment.
so true!

3:07 PM  

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